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In Hehran period when thousands of acres of vineyards were destroyed, to make sure no wine was produced, unemployment increased drastically in the rural and urban areas. The number of prostitutes at the time was so high that the government officials attempted to regulate the trade by registering and taxing the prostitutes. Verbal decency restricted any open expressions of desire for women and public discussions of sexuality remained within confined religious prescriptions.
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Such restrictions femqle in form of a culture of indecent language and verbal abuse using male and female genitals that still persists today as evident by Iranian on-line chat rooms that are full of such language. Islamic codes of behavior gehran by the clergy as best illustrated in Married female wanting black male in tehran colossal work Looking for a car date in ascalão of Light Bihar al Anwar treated sex and desire in its' most primitive form; reproduction and instinct.
In such literature women are totally devoid from any instinct at all Marrier are reduced wantlng sex organs and are treated as mechanically reproducing agents. Their bodies are assumed to cemale satanic properties that would send all men to hell if exposed to the naked eye. Women being the property and honor namous of their husbands, veiling and their exclusion from public domain were sought to be the solution. Such literature at the same time reduces men to sexual animals and male sexual instinct is regarded as natural, God given and is praised, encouraged and tehrah through polygamy and or concubinage. Such practices created amle masculine culture and men developed modes of false strength i on acceptance of the superiority of their gender.
Females on the other hand became isolated, insecure, and forced to accept their inferior position as part of the natural order. Segregation was imposed by using extreme force and by creating codes of behavior and ethical values that stressed the virtuosity of obedience, loyalty, veiling and segregation. Women were required to be passive, shy, virtuous and agreeable to their husband's every vim and vigor. Hadith and other religious literature are full of recommendations about such matters and condemn any deviations. Sexuality of women was identified to be the same as 'public moral' and severe punishments were applied fdmale women violating the expected behavior with honor killings, and stoning to death, the prescribed Islamic punishment for adultery.
Naser Khosro 11th century and Ibn Batuteh 14th century in their travelling tebran describe restrictions imposed on women and violent punishments expecting them. Naser Khosro mentions that in the city of Tabas, the local governor would execute any unrelated male and female caught Marfied to each other. Taliban in recent years had similar policies in Afghanistan. The first changes occurred toward the end of the 19th century and started with the educated, merchants and aristocrats acquainted with Europeans ways. The first intellectuals of this period were patriotic, reform oriented and amongst major national issues demanded emancipation, monogamy, education, equal rights and opportunities for women.
The western countries like England fueling their ideas and motivating them to change were also traditionalist with such matters. Victorian morality and conservative codes of ethic and behavior ruled firmly and was observed by most Europeans at the time. Male intellectuals of this period encouraged and backed their wives and daughters to fight for their rights. They supported female schools and opened up job opportunities for women. However no one questioned the traditional values of the family or the conventional courting system between men and women and there was no question of free sexual relationships between the two sexes. A few courageous women who were brave or powerful enough to adopt such a life style like Taj Saltaneh, Naser al din Shah's daughter, were immediately labeled as loose or whore by all, including their admirers and lovers.
The brilliant artist and nationalist Aref Ghazvini in his memoirs mentions quite a few of such women with whom he had illegitimate affairs and sexual intercourse. One account about his love making in a public bath provides an insight on how men and women carried out such relationships while living under very strict Islamic codes. Aref and others like Iraj Mirza despite their patriotism, modernism and demands for change and emancipation of women followed the expected behavior of 'double standards' in their writings and made a clear distinction between such women and the good and virtuous ones. The wives were not expected to be sexual and pleasure was sought from outside the household with women labeled as loose and immoral.
Such imagery of women was and still is the popular and traditional way of representing women in Iran. The image presents a polarity between the good, the ethical and the mother figure as opposed to the temptress and the loose woman using her sexuality to seduce and misguide men. Such women are a threat to public moral. Parvin Etesami in her life and works by imposing self censorship made sure that no one would mistake her for the second category. The males of the next generation faced different dilemmas. The intellectuals mostly socialists or communists witnessed the emancipation and lived through it. Idealistic with grand ideas of equality for all including women and at the same time growing up with the notion of the virtuous and the virgin wives, they were confused, hesitant and unsettled.
Bozorg Alavi's major novel, Her Eyes is the best example of such conflicts. The main character is a beautiful upper-class temptress who is retelling the story of her life. She is constantly apologizing and regretting her past actions, i. Sadegh Hedayat in his blind owl can only make love to the female characters in the world of death, the ethereal woman and his murdered wife see link at the end for more info. Dead women can not be a threat and he is safe with them! The average people had their own reservations.
For years men and women had lived in separate spaces with no females openly present in public places except for the family members. Now thrown together they had to start from the beginning and learn how to share the same space, work together and socialize like normal human beings did throughout the human history. This was the beginning of sexual revolution in Iran. For the first time in centuries males and females were in direct contact with no supervision and no retribution, the veil was lifted. This might not sound as radical as the 's sexual revolution in the western countries but for the Iranian culture this was indeed a revolution.
Romance entered life and popular romantic literature dealing with earthly and physical love became bestsellers. For the first time public spaces were created aiming at leisure activities, such as cafes, clubs, theaters, cinemas, discotheques etc. Affairs took place, men and women fell in love some excessively, physical contacts were made, mainly kissing and other bodily touches.
Some went further, unwed women got pregnant, abortions for the first time, safely and legally available, were carried out and sexually transmitted diseases soared. One look at the papers and magazines of the 's through 's shows an amazing number of advertising with respect to cures for such diseases particularly syphilis. Characteristically the women who took Married female wanting black male in tehran risks and had sex lost at the end. Virgin brides were still in demand by most men including the intellectuals and the Girl fucked in auckland standard' ideology remained.
Jalal al-Ahmad while married to Simin Daneshvar had many affairs openly and indiscreetly. If Danshevar ever talks about wantingg relationship it will Married female wanting black male in tehran interesting to know what al-Ahmad feemale have done jn his wife had all the affairs? Masses still remained traditionalist and number of honor killings and physical abuse of women by their lovers and boyfriends increased and became feamle news items. Any attempt by traditional and lower class women to try the new courting styles resulted in their banishment and many ended up as prostitutes.
We respect your privacy and take protecting it seriously x A Baluch woman in the city of Chabahar in Sistan-Baluchestan Province. As women in Iran have been trying to be more assertive, from rejecting laws on clothing styles to challenging social mores, the risks they can encounter for doing so can be dire. Many women need permission from a man in their family to leave the house or to go to university. Why do they treat me like this? In Iran, women face discrimination in every aspect of their lives, including on issues of marriage, divorce and custody, equal inheritance, political office and family and criminal law.
Iranian law even allows a man the right to stop his wife from working in certain areas; and some employers require husbands to give written consent for women to be allowed to work. Despite the adverse circumstances of women and girls throughout Iran, the more than 20 women that I interviewed about their lives spoke up — sometimes anonymously — about the rights they felt they deserved. Here is a capsule of what they said: Career restrictions Fatima not her real namea university student studying genetics in Tehran: Women here are not allowed to participate in the Olympics. If a woman can swim well, then she should be able to participate like everybody else.
So women started making jokes that if we are not getting rain then we should push our scarves back a bit so we can get rain. Everyone made fun of them. Signs in marketplaces remind women, for example, to keep themselves covered, such as wearing the chador, above.